Yesterday, I had an extremely short interaction with someone to whom I was once very close.
In all good faith, I instigated it.
Within minutes I wished I hadn't.
It is quite amazing how feelings of anger, hurt and pain that one thought were long forgotten raise themselves so quickly.
So once again, I am reminded of why the person that I was once so close to is now and has been for a very long time, my ex husband!!!!
He probably feels the same way about me!!
Oh, you fell into that trap. Part of my bad mood of late has been interaction with people once dear friends that I distanced myself from for some time. Then suddenly they are in my life again and presenting their best sides.
ReplyDeleteThe last few days has reminded my why they are ex husband, ex best friend, etc. But all in a clump like this I found myself wondering if I belonged on the couch trying to change my spots.
Well, I don't want to.
Great blog, my friend.
Every time I think of mine those feelings rush back so I'm not likely to look for a better understanding with him any time soon. However I have a friend like that. We don't communicate for years at a time because of some stupid idea she clings to and the hurtful things she eventually comes out with. we drift apart then she will get in touch years later as if nothing has happened and go do the same thing all over again. I can't be bothered but every time it happens I think oh well maybe she has changed but nope! The latest time it happened was last month after a gap of 3 years.
ReplyDeleteOops. Well, hold your ground and don't change your spots.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Willow.
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